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The Box Tops - Cry Like a Baby (1968)

by Wolf Radio on 01/30/12



Hear Is one Going Out to Amanda She Knows Why...LOL — with Amanda Regnier at Wolf Radio.

MARRIED OR NOT*** You Should Read This....

by Wolf Radio on 01/26/12

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. i suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’ s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I ran up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was too busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from whatever negative reaction it would have on our son, in case we pushed through with the divorce. —At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband…. THE SMALL DETAILS OF YOUR LIVES ARE WHAT REALLY MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP. "IT'S NOT" the Mansion or House, the Car, Property, the Money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage! If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you. If you do, you just might save a marriage. Most of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up... YOU DON'T REALIZE WHAT YOU HAVE UNTIL ITS GONE!!

LeeJay Bed & Bath

by Wolf Radio on 01/24/12

Bed Bath and Beyond: 1985 - The Year Home Furnishings Retailing Changed Forever


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It was 25 years ago that Bed Bath went Beyond, creating the modern day home superstore and forever changing the rules of retailing. HFN looks at how the chain did it and what it all means a quarter of a century later in a special report.
Mohegan Lake, N.Y., one of the chain’s newest units.

By Warren Shoulberg

It is perhaps ironic that the number one movie of the year was “Back to the Future,” because in many ways the future of home furnishings retailing was forever changed in 1985.

In a year when Americans bought more Chevy Cavaliers than any other car and they celebrated “We Are the World” in music, they also saw the debut of a retailing format that would influence and shape the way they have bought sheets and towels and pots and pans ever since.

When Warren Eisenberg and Len Feinstein, who had started their modest domestics specialty retailing operation 14 years before and had barely surfaced on most industry radar screens, added a whole new dimension—not to mention a third alliterative word to their store name—it was a historic moment, indeed.

It was the year Bed Bath went Beyond.

Twenty-five years later, Bed Bath is unquestionably the dominant specialty home retailer and one of the biggest overall sellers of home furnishings products in the country, with annual sales approaching $8 billion. With the demise of Linens ’n Things two years ago, there is no other player in the space that’s even close.

But a quarter of a century ago, the specialty channel was very different and teeming with regional players and it was by no means certain which if any of them would endure.

 

Virtually all the home specialists were grounded in the soft-home end of the business and none had a national presence. The landscape included:
Linens ’n Things: Begun by entrepreneur Eugene Kalkin, the New York-based operation had been purchased by burgeoning retail conglomerate Melville three years earlier. Arguably the largest home specialist at the time, the store was heavily weighted toward  the Linens side.

Lee Jay Bed and Bath: Coming out of the Boston area, Howard Israel created a regional powerhouse that was almost exclusively soft home and was an early direct importer. Strouds: Originally a discount operation, Bill Stroud was already moving his Southern California mini-chain up market with bigger stores, although still virtually all bed and bath. Pacific Linens: Based in Seattle, the specialty operation followed the same soft home model as the others.

There were other regional players scattered throughout the country, but they each had two things in common: There was virtually no overlap in geographic presence—other than LNT and Bed & Bath in the New York metropolitan area—and each one was primarily if not completely focused on home textiles products. Only a few non-soft-home specialty chains existed: Lechter’s, Waccamaw and perhaps one or two others.

By 1985, Eisenberg and Feinstein had built up a good-sized business, at least as the playing field existed then. From two stores in 1971, the company had expanded to 17 units in New York, New Jersey, Connecticut and California.

They knew they were on the right track. “We had witnessed the department-store shakeout and knew that specialty stores were going to be the next wave of retailing,” Feinstein said in a rare interview, in 1993. (Company officials declined to comment for this story.)

But they also knew their 2,000-square-foot, soft-home-only stores were not going to be enough. Bed and bath products provided good margins but did not drive traffic. Eisenberg and Feinstein knew they had to do something to take their business to the next level.

“They caught the genie in the bottle.” So says Howard Israel today, more than a decade after BBB effectively put his Lee Jay operation out of business. “They captured an unidentified market.”

The vehicle to capture that market was a 20,000-square-foot location in Springfield, N.J., a central Jersey suburban town where one of the company’s original two stores had been located. 

At ten times the size of those existing units and at least twice as big as anything else in the specialty arena, the store was a dramatic break from the status quo. It featured an extensive assortment of housewares products and you had to walk through those departments to get to the domestics area.

And unlike its predecessors, it had a new name: Bed Bath & Beyond.

Said Feinstein about the early days in that same interview: “It was the beginning of the designer approach to linens and housewares and we saw a real window of opportunity.”

While Toys ‘R’ Us is generally credited with inventing the category killer retailing format—offering huge assortments in a narrowly defined merchandising classification at competitive prices—it was BBB that brought the concept to home furnishings.

The company, still privately owned at the time, didn’t provide financial data to corroborate the success of the new format, but to anyone in the industry, it was clear what was happening.

“They captured it,” said Israel, “and the day of the linen specialty store was over.

“Here I was with 10,000-square-foot stores and they came along with these big stores and lots of money and they would just be overwhelming. There was no way for a small store to survive.”

“When they went to the Beyond format, they got it,” remembered Alan Gladstone, founder and president of Anna’s Linens, which with more than 250 stores today is the only other large-scale home furnishings specialty operation still in business. “The customer responded.”

Things clicked pretty quickly for BBB. Within two years the corporate name had been changed to Bed Bath & Beyond and within the next few years it opened nine superstores in various parts of the country. Without central warehousing and the need to cover regional advertising, it could situate locations scattershot around the country and that’s what it did.

Said one analyst at that time about BBB: “(It) took a less-than-strong category and made it important.”

The cornerstones of the BBB merchandising strategy are all well known today: decentralized management, tight financial controls, no debt, strong merchandising with a special emphasis on item selling and an uncompromising buying philosophy. But back in the late 1980s they were doing things nobody else was—and doing them very well.

By 1991, sales had reached $134 million and Bed Bath was starting to pull away from the rest of the specialty pack.

“We were unable to change,” said Israel, perhaps speaking for his counterparts of the era. “I was locked into leases and couldn’t open bigger stores. They had better locations too.”

Israel began opening larger stores and tried to move hard goods into existing locations, but his stores could never compete in size and scope with Bed Bath. When BBB opened a store just up the road from Lee Jay’s Natick, Mass., flagship, Israel said sales virtually collapsed. “We just didn’t have the stores. They were smart or lucky … or both.”

One by one, as BBB expanded nationally, the regional players began to go under. Stroud’s tried to break out of its Southwestern U.S. base and even went public, but its linens-only format was no competition for Bed Bath. Regionals like Home Express, 3D and Pacific Linens could not defend their turfs.

Even a well-financed, slick newcomer called HomePlace, which opened with a bang and expanded rapidly, couldn’t compete and after merging with Waccamaw, it too fell victim to the onslaught.

Only Linens ’n Things, which was spun off from Melville in 1996 and went public, survived, but eventually it too succumbed to over-leveraged debt and management miscues in 2008.

Luxury Linens, the home textiles and home decor department started within Burlington Coat Factory in 1987, remains in business, but is generally conceded to be in a different league from home superstores.

And then there’s Anna’s. “There were 25 regional and national specialty store operations when we started 22 years ago,” said Gladstone. “And besides us and Bed Bath, they all failed.”

How has Anna’s survived? “When I started Anna’s, I purposely had a model that was not going to compete with BBB. We didn’t want to become Anna’s Linen Superstore. I saw that they were going after the better, Caucasian customer and that’s not who our customer is.

“Our customer”—a primarily  ethnic, lower and middle income demographic—“doesn’t go to Bed Bath & Beyond. I don’t consider them a competitor. We are different stores.”

Gladstone has enormous respect for Bed Bath. “Nobody does it better and they are led by great merchants with great financial discipline.” For that reason he doesn’t believe anyone can coexist in Bed Bath’s space.

But Anna’s, which expects to have 275 stores by the end of the year and is doing double-digit comps this year, according to Gladstone, has found its niche. “The proof is all around: We’re still here and all the other stores are gone.”

All of them except for Bed Bath and Beyond, now with some 1,100 stores across five brands in three countries. Speaking on a conference call a few years back, current Bed Bath & Beyond CEO Steve Temares talked about all of those long-gone competitors and put things in a kind of perspective. “Change is not new. Our experience is that home is vibrant and strong, and abounds with opportunities for continued profitable growth.”

In hindsight, when Bed Bath went Beyond in 1985 nobody quite knew how monumental that was. A seminal moment in history Howard Israel was asked?
“It has to be. The world changed.”

Snow storm 2012

by Wolf Radio on 01/19/12

We have not had a lot of snow yet this year but when we have a little dusting like today people have no idea how to drive. I went by 2 car accident's on the way to the Holyoke mall to work 3rd shift tonight. O well We will see haw the morning is I may have to take Amanda to work. 

Dave in the News July 12, 2011 VHQ

by Wolf Radio on 01/19/12

Dave in the News July 12, 2011

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by Wolf Radio on 01/09/12


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